
Amy Winehouse’s best friend, singer Remi Nicole, threw a party for her 25th birthday Saturday night at a London club. Instead of showing up and accepting everyone’s well wishes Winehouse begged off and stubbornly refused to go to her own party. She is rumored to have told friends gathered at her house urging her to go that she wasn’t going to attend the party because she was “ugly.” Remi organized the whole thing and went to a lot of trouble, but she spent three frustating hours and Amy’s house and ultimately couldn’t convince the singer to go. This is pretty sad if it’s all true:
AMY WINEHOUSE refused to go to her own birthday party after realising how drugs have ravaged her looks and ranting: “I look “f***ing ugly.”
The Grammy award-winning singer had a furious row with best pal REMI NICOLE as she desperately tried to convince her to attend her own 25th bash.
Celebs including ADELE, MARK RONSON and Amy’s mother JANIS waited for her in central London’s Jazz After Dark club on Saturday — but the junkie, who is still battling huge drug addictions, refused to leave home.
Three cabs were called to the star’s house in Camden, North London.
Two were sent away before Remi gave up and took the third home after three hours trying to get Amy out.
Her 15 guests were then left to eat her guitar-shaped cake without ever seeing her.
A pal said: “Amy was standing in front of the mirror telling everyone how rough she looked.
“Unfortunately her lifestyle has had a major affect on her appearance and it’s only just started to sink in.
“She kept saying she was ugly and was in an awful state. They couldn’t get her out.
“Remi had organised the night and made a huge effort. They had a huge row.
“Amy can be very selfish — there was no convincing her and she ruined the night for everyone, including herself.”
Even Amy’s pal BLAKE WOOD — who she was rumoured to have had a fling with — arrived with arms full of presents, only to be told the troubled singer wasn’t coming.
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Amy’s mom Janis is said to have been crying at her daughter’s absence.
Winehouse was recently photographed looking very troubled and sickly. It’s possible she saw the stories about those photos and that led her to be particularly self conscious.
Whatever you call Amy - an addict, druggie, junkie - she’s a human being and our heart goes out to her. No one deserves to live like that even if they’re “choosing” it. People are speculating that she’s near death based on her fragile state. It’s difficult to really comment on these Winehouse stories or even think about it too much as it seems very dire for her at this point.
She doesn’t need a party, she needs to be committed. There are all sorts of legal complications that make that impossible to do at this point, and I’m afraid we’ll have to just keep watching her downward slide. It’s up to Amy now, but maybe something will change and someone will be granted responsibility over her. It worked for another famous singer. There’s no comparing Amy and Britney, but Britney’s positive outcome can at least give us some hope for Amy.
Amy Winehouse is shown on 9/11/08. There’s also a photo of a paparazzi van decorated for her birthday outside her house on 9/14. Credit: WENN
